I’m Vicari Vollmar Conley. I’m a 27-year-old production manager for a public policy firm, and a self-proclaimed foodie with an affinity for fitness, bold color, stick-shift, and a good gin fizz. I firmly believe in carbohydrates, horoscopes, and the power of love.

As a July-born Cancerian, I’m a family-oriented pseudo-perfectionist with a knack for solving problems. I specialize in identity and publication design, and thoroughly enjoy some good old-fashioned wordsmithing. When I’m not making magic, I’m smudging my apartment to befriend my fiancé’s bitchcat.

I am most comfortable being human.


In the wake of an ended relationship, faced with an overwhelming lifestyle change, I loaded my fine-point black Sharpie and embarked on a journey of self-rediscovery in a hand-bound, handwritten journal.

While the pages of said masterpiece provided a world’s worth of healing, they also contained enough dirty laundry and pants-wetting tales of woe to make your mother frown.

Cue So Vicarious, my digital supplement, and wholly approved for public consumption. After several years of healing through ink, I’ve shifted my focus to sharing my personal narratives with the hope that my audience can find value in my victories and follies. Follow along as I tackle life head-on, learning how best to navigate its highs, lows, and in-betweens.

Welcome to living so vicariously through me.

Spill it.

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